My Friends Are Telling Me to Abort, But I’m Not Ready.

You’ve just discovered you’re pregnant. When the people you turn to, especially friends, immediately suggest abortion, it can feel overwhelming or even isolating. If you’re feeling pressured, confused, or not ready to make that decision, please know this: you are not alone, and you have options. This is your life, your future, and your pregnancy. The choice is yours.

At Spero Medical, we understand how overwhelming this time can be. We offer free services, including medically verified pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, STD/STI testing and treatment, and emotional support to help you navigate your options with confidence and care.

Whose Voice Are You Hearing?

In stressful moments, other people’s opinions can feel louder than your own. Friends may mean well, but they won’t live with the outcome. You will. Taking a step back can help you understand the source of the pressure:

  • External Pressure: Are your friends, the baby’s father, or family urging abortion based on their own fears or circumstances rather than yours?
  • Internal Conflict: Are you worried about finances, school, work or readiness? These concerns are real, but they don’t have to dictate your choice.

You deserve time and space to listen to your own voice. What outcome feels right in your heart, right now and long term?

You Have Time. You Have Options.

Feeling “not ready” is a valid feeling. And feeling unsure about abortion is valid too. Abortion is a serious decision, and if you feel hesitant, you don’t have to rush.

Spero Medical provides free, confidential services to help you slow down and find clarity:

  • No-Pressure Consultations: Our compassionate staff can help you work through your feelings and explore all your options: abortion, adoption, and parenting. We offer a safe space to discuss your fears and hopes.
  • Material and Financial Resources: If your concern is about support, we can connect you with resources for housing, job training, education, and essential baby items. Help is available.

Your Next Step: Seek Confidential Support

Don’t let pressure from others or yourself push you into something you may not be ready for. Your feelings matter. Your future matters.

Schedule a free, confidential appointment. We’re here to provide you with the facts and support you need to make an empowered, informed choice that is right for you.